Wednesday, November 25th, 2009 | Author: Lydia

Tomo­rrow is Thanks­gi­ving in the USA.

Thanks­gi­ving was cele­bra­ted on the last Thurs­day of Novem­ber ever since Pre­si­dent Lin­coln dec­la­red it a legal holi­day in 1863.  But in 1941, Pre­si­dent Fran­klin offi­cially chan­ged the day of cele­bra­tion to the fourth Thurs­day of November.

Back in Novem­ber of 1620, the Pil­grims sett­led in a place named Ply­mouth. It was near Cape Cod and with win­ter star­ting they could not plant their food. They also could not build their homes because of the cold weather. As a result, more than half of their colony died.

In 1621, an Indian taught them how to hunt and grow corn, so they were able to har­vest that Octo­ber. They cele­bra­ted this suc­cess and invi­ted the Indians to their 3 day feast of Thanksgiving…

Unfor­tu­na­tely, this holi­day (as all others seem to) is somehow begin­ning to lose it’s mea­ning. Cor­po­rate Ame­rica is taking this over as they have done with most other  holidays.

The Yahoo front page doesn’t have news about Thanks­gi­ving, but rather news about sur­vi­ving Black Friday.

Of course, it we weren’t for­ced into this, we chose it.

I remem­ber having a tra­di­tion in my home where I would hand out a book and each per­son would write a blurb about what they were thank­ful for throughout the year.  The youn­gest per­son would read out loud what ever­yone wrote the pre­vious year, and the oldest per­son would read what ever­yone wrote for the current year.

The first few years were very touching and mea­ning­ful. Each of us would write of high­lights in our lives for the year.  But, after a few years, we began to recite the same thing over and over…”I am thank­ful for my family, my health” blah blah..Once it became so repe­ti­tious and mea­nin­gless, I just put the book away.

So the holi­day itself seems to have gone through the same change over the years. It began as a way to be thank­ful for the har­vest and a cele­bra­tion of friendship and family, but is tur­ning into a frenzy for shopping.

Things never stay the same… and that’s okay, you know? I used to love green bean cas­se­role, but now I’m get­ting kind of tired of it. smile_sarcastic

But my kids? They seem to like tra­di­tion. They keep asking me to bring “The Book of Giving Thanks” back again.. And also, they plan to wake early and go wait on lines the next day! (this I have to see..Rolling on the floor)

So go ahead and enjoy those Black Fri­day sales if that’s your thing.

As for me? I’ll be doing my shop­ping online. Yep. No lines, screa­ming peo­ple or fights. Just me, my cof­fee and my two trus­ted friends, laying right by my feet.

Hey, have a won­der­ful Thanks­gi­ving if you cele­brate this day! And a suc­cess­ful Black Fri­day if you should decide to do this.

Lydia


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8 Responses

  1. Happy Thanks­gi­ving Lydia. Enjoy the day as it is meant to be for you and your family.

    Cheers,

    Gene

  2. Hi Gene,

    Thank you!
    :)

  3. Hi Lydia!

    Just drop­ping by to wish you Happy Holi­days! I do pre­fer to say Merry Christ­mas but you just don’t know who you might upset these days ;) I think you should bring the book back. Tra­di­tion is something to be trea­su­red (in some cir­cums­tan­ces). Poor Abraham got stuck making paper chains for hours for our Christ­mas deco­ra­tions… but there was no com­plaints and my family back in Aus­tra­lia still do it even when I am not there. I used to catch whoe­ver arri­ved at my house and put them to work cut­ting and sta­pling. It is a little piece of me at Christ­mas when I can’t be there and it sounds like your book is crea­ting the same thing. Some­ti­mes a little tra­di­tion can be a bles­sing. :) I hope all is well with you and you are enjo­ying a great sea­son. Has been a great year!

    Bles­sings to you and yours!

    Julieanne xxx

  4. Very good job with your blog. Keep going on, improve it a bit for Search Engi­nes, find some peo­ple to exchange blog links, etc., and it will grow in traf­fic too. Suc­cess, Teo

  5. Hi Teo! Thanks for the visit and the nice com­pli­ment. I’ve been neglec­ting the blog for quite some time. Hoping that after the holi­days I will get back to it again.

    Also, thanks for the poin­ters about the search engi­nes, but I don’t really mind if it isn’t publi­ci­zed much. Am sure whoe­ver, if anyone, needs to read what I write, they will be drawn to it. Life has a way of doing that.

    Nice to see you here, hope everything wor­ked out for you.…

    Lydia

  6. Julianne, how have you been?? I really miss you and our cof­fee :(

    Oh yes, unfor­tu­na­tely it has become a big taboo to say MERRY CHRISTMAS — but I surely don’t mind, so feel free to say it here at anytime!

    We did the book, and yes my daugh­ter the oldest one, just loves tra­di­tion, I sort of go with the flow :)

    Are you pretty much sett­led in your new home? We’re next. Clo­sing is tomorrow.

    Talk soon!
    Lydia

  7. Yes, life is doing it! Bles­sings to your daugh­ters and the whole family!
    Teo M

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